I wasn’t sure how to start off this blog then I saw this photo. I am gonna post some of the comments that were under it then share my feelings about it.
Girl 1: i just wanna love me for me
Girl 2: That’s very true!
Girl 3: and some of us don’t even want to be “bones” like we are. I HATE when people say OMG you’re so skinny… its just as rude as saying OMG you’re so fat!
Girl 4: every woman should love themselves no matter their body type and stop judging others when they know nothing about why they are that way, chosen or not….
Girl 5: I don’t think what people say is the issue. People are always gonna talk, everyone does. Everyone is a hypocrite…you are, I am…everyone is. The sooner everyone learns this the better. The real issue is your own insecurities. Get over them and be happy…because it’s not people that bring you down…it’s yourself.
Girl 6:People with curves hate on skinny girls just cause they are jealous and obviously have no control over the bullshit they say. I used to be like that, but got over it cause we are all beautiful in our own ways
Girl 5: I have curves and I’m not jealous of skinny girls. I don’t talk Shit about them, or hate them and I can definitely control what I say. Speak for yourself Andrea…don’t be jealous of anyone because we are all beautiful in or own ways. Don’t let your insecurities bring you down. Now tell me, if curvy girls talk bad about skinny girls because they’re jealous…what’s the reason skinny girls bash curvy girls? You’re naturally skinny and tall? Goods for you, i’m naturally short and plump. I’ve been struggling my whole life. Don’t judge anyone and don’t speak for anyone because you don’t know what kind of hard journey they’re on, or what kind of hardships they’ve had to go through. Yes it is wrong to tell a skinny girl she needs to eat, but it’s also wrong to call people fat and hypocrites. That picture with the quote is just as hateful. So instead of rising above and being a better person…that quote is just lowering the skinny girls to the same level as the people who tell you that you need to eat.
Girl 1: no matter society will find something wrong w something
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Girl 7: I’m def sharing this… sooo sick of hearing it. Obese is socially acceptable because America is fat as hell.
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Ok here I go, I think Girl 5 nailed it. I have been the naturally skeleton looking girl to the thick chunky one. Now I also have had 4 kids. I never really exercise and me being thick is my fault cause I eat healthy just don’t work out. That being said being obese is not socially acceptable if it was we would have the size 18 as the new size 5 and Precious would have been on the cover of playboy magazine. Fashion defines obese as a size 12/14. Normal size for a model a size 0-5 and that 5 is thick. Being a photographer I understand the mindset, less flaws to fix, creases to fade out not alot of reshaping because the body is 3d and photos are not. I use to get irritated about being told I should eat more, I was starving myself ect. I ate nonstop. At the age of 12 I would go in to Burger King order a Whopper w/bacon extra large, finish it and pick off friends plates. I never did sports, I was a singer. At 16 I was a whopping 115 with a 32a cup at 5’7 size 2 pants. After my first baby at 18 I was 135 with a 36c cup size 8. My ex loved me being skinny now I was just thin. He would call me fat and say I was gross. At the age of 22 I had my 3rd kid I was 175 with 38d cup size 14. Mind you I have never had a roll, back fat or flabby arms or muffin top. I was told I was obese and my heart dropped. My bigger friends said oh look whos fat now and my thin friends we aw hunny its ok you have had kids and moms usually get fat you can’t help it. When I was thin I could walk in a store by jeans right off rack no issue or they would be alittle lose. Shirts would fit perfect. I am now after my 4th kid a size 16/18/20 if I told you what I weighed you would think I was a fat slob even tho I am not. This is what I look like when I have ate dairy, a single soda, gluten or wheat products.
This is what I look like when I stick to fruit, veggies, rice and chicken diet.
Neither of these photos have been changed except for color. I weigh 210 in top photo and 190 in bottom. All because of my diet. I am allergic to alot of foods. I can drop 20lbs in 3 days if I change my diet. I can honestly say that being thin was easier emotionally then being thick. Altho I love being a size 14 the best it is hard for me to stay that size since I don’t exercise.
The issue isn’t that fat girls are jealous. I have never been jealous of the girls I know when it came to their size. I am surrounded by models, wanna be models and photographers daily. My jealousy is of the girl who is a size 20 and rocks that shit and flaunts how sexy she feels. That my face turns round in a photo even tho I don’t have a fat face. I am irritated at girls who whine because they have naturally what thousands of woman pay lots of money for, starve for, isolate themselves cause they are not, become wall flowers because society, skinny girls take that back cunts (naturally thin woman don’t come off as cunts, they don’t call chunky woman names. Girls who starve, over workout, count calories and feel skinny is the only beautiful and thick people are ugly are cunts.) Girls who whine about wanting others to not judge them and wanting to love themselves cause people judge them cause they are thin but they get surgery, modify and call fat girls jealous.
If being fat was ok the contests at the bars would be full of rolls not barely legal, plastic tits and rib cages. Girls that workout to be skinny and would be ok with being thin. Both overly skinny and overly fat are not ok and not normal. Granted not everyone fits in a box or the same cut jeans. But really if you have to work out everyday for few hours to get that hip bone to pop or to lose that extra fold then you both are doing the same thing. Both of you are at extreme ends of the weight chart and both are not healthy. Its the pot calling the kettle black.
As for judging others by what you only see at the surface well we all learned in grade school not to judge a book by its cover so shame on you for being such a simple minded idiot.
p.s. everyone has some form of eating disorder, warped view of themself, warped view of others and NO ONE NO ONE is perfect. But when you judge yourself by what others say is ok or normal most of the time you are comparing yourself to a lie because no one will admit everything just most things.
Verbal Vomit By Monroe 